So, you’ve heard about Facebook Dating, and you’re curious to try it out. Good news: it’s totally free and built right into the Facebook app. But unlocking it can be confusing if you don’t know where to look or what to do
In this blog post, I’ll walk you through every step of the process so you can start meeting singles without spending a dime.
1. Know What Facebook Dating Is
Before you try unlocking anything, it helps to understand what Facebook Dating actually is. Unlike other dating apps, it’s a built-in feature on the Facebook mobile app. It lets you create a separate dating profile, match with people, and message them—all without affecting your main Facebook account.
You’ll get matches based on your interests, preferences, and Facebook activity. And yes, your friends won’t know unless they’re using it too. Total privacy.
2. Check If Facebook Dating Is Available in Your Country
Facebook Dating isn’t available everywhere. It’s rolled out in over 50 countries, but not globally yet. Here’s what you should do first:
- Open the Facebook app.
- Tap the menu (three horizontal lines).
- Scroll down and look for a heart icon labelled “Dating.”
If you see it, great! You can move on. If not, Facebook Dating might not be available in your region, or your app might need an update.
3. Update the Facebook App
Still can’t find the Dating icon? Your app could be outdated. Go to the App Store (iPhone) or Google Play Store (Android) and make sure you’ve got the latest version of Facebook. Once updated:
- Reopen the Facebook app.
- Go back to the menu.
- Look again for the heart icon.
Sometimes just updating the app is enough to unlock Dating.
4. Set Your Age to 18 or Older
Facebook Dating is only available to users aged 18 and older. If your birthday on your profile shows you’re younger, the feature won’t appear. Fix it by:
- Going to your profile.
- Tapping “Edit Profile.”
- Updating your birthdate to reflect your true age (must be 18+).
Remember, age info can take a bit of time to update across the platform.
5. Activate Facebook Location Services
Facebook Dating uses your location to match you with people nearby. So, if you’ve disabled location permissions for Facebook, the feature won’t work right—or show up at all.
Here’s how to turn it on:
- Go to your phone settings.
- Tap on Facebook under apps.
- Enable location access (preferably “While using the app”).
Now, go back and check for the Dating tab again.
6. Set Up Your Dating Profile
Once you find the Dating icon, tap it to create your profile. Don’t worry—this profile is separate from your main Facebook one.
You’ll be asked to:
- Add a few photos.
- Write a short bio.
- Answer prompts (e.g., “My ideal weekend…”).
- Set your match preferences (gender, age range, location).
This is your chance to make a great first impression. Keep it real, honest, and light-hearted.
7. Explore the Secret Crush Feature
Want to test the waters with someone you already know? Facebook Dating has a “Secret Crush” feature. It lets you select up to nine of your Facebook friends or Instagram followers. If they add you too, it’s a match. No one knows unless the interest is mutual.
To use it:
- Tap “Secret Crush” in the Dating section.
- Add names from your friends list or Instagram.
It’s fun, low-pressure, and all private.
8. Start Matching and Messaging
Once your profile is live, Facebook will suggest potential matches. You can like their profile or comment on something specific—much like Hinge.
When someone likes you back, you’ll be notified, and you can start chatting. The messaging stays inside the Dating section, not your main Messenger app. That keeps everything clean and separate.
9. Stay Safe While Using Facebook Dating
Facebook has built-in safety features like
- Blocking or reporting users
- Sharing your live location with a friend when meeting someone
Still, use common sense:
- Don’t give out personal info too soon.
- Meet in public first.
- Trust your instincts.
Your safety comes first—always.
10. Troubleshoot If It’s Still Not Working
If Facebook Dating doesn’t show up even after you’ve followed all the steps:
- Log out and back into Facebook.
- Reinstall the app.
- Clear the cache (in your phone settings).
- Contact the Facebook Help Centre.
Sometimes, it’s a glitch. Other times, your profile settings or device restrictions might be the issue.
Conclusion
Unlocking Facebook Dating is simple if you know what steps to follow. It’s free, safe, and tucked right into the app you already use every day. Just make sure your app is updated, you’re over 18, and your location is on. Once you’re in, all it takes is a little effort to set up your profile and start connecting with real people near you.
So go ahead—find the heart icon, set up your profile, and start your journey toward something real. Your person might just be a swipe away.